Read This Book: The 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman

This is one of my favorite books to recommend to couples seeking counseling for relationship issues. It is simple to follow and read, and gives great examples in each section of how to speak your partner’s love language.

This is particularly helpful for those who speak different love languages because it is not intuitive to us to know how best to speak a language that we don’t relate to from our own perspective.

I have found that couples who really practice using these love languages can improve the quality of their communications and ultimately can improve the quality of their relationships.